Definite maybe

Out of the blue you decided to tell me that you are debating dating me again.

Debating.  Meaning still undecided.  A definite maybe.

I listened to you with an open mind.
Trying to understand words that made no sense.

You think you may want to date me again, but still want to date other people as well.
But you don't want to have sex with any of us.

Well, you do, but you aren't going to.
Because you are looking for a serious relationship now.

And those other girls... the ones at the beginning that you were just having sex with... they were what you needed at the time.  But after awhile they left you feeling empty.

Now you want more.

Because you understand now that in order to form a relationship with someone you have to date them first.  Get to know the girl before you have sex with her.

Because sex changes everything. You see their flaws faster.

So you are debating dating me again.
Because you want what you had with me.
But not sure if you want it with me if you can find it with someone else.

You've been tossing the idea around for a few weeks.  You are still undecided.

You say to me....  "You are a great person.  And after five minutes together it would be like old times.  Because we really got along well.  And not everybody is perfect.  I'm learning there is always something about someone that you don't like"

And when you were done being open and honest,
more than you have ever been,
which threw me for a loop,
I said nothing.

I mean really, what was there to say?

You weren't saying anything worth responding to.

You weren't telling me you realized you had made a mistake and wanted me back.
You weren't making me an offer.
You weren't even considering my feelings at all.

Once again, this was all about you.

So I told you... stop debating.
Because nothing you said is even worth a debate.